Understanding Typical Child Developmental Milestones

Understanding typical child developmental milestones is important for parents and caregivers and may help them to identify possible delays that should be evaluated by a professional.  

Developmental milestones are divided into various categories:

  • social and emotional
  • language/communication
  • cognitive
  • movement/physical development

Developmental milestones are things that most children can do by a certain age, but it is important to note that every child is different and will do things on a slightly different timeline.  Not reaching a milestone by the corresponding age does not necessarily indicate that there is a problem with the child’s development but can be discussed with a healthcare provider or child development professional.  

Developmental Milestones As Listed by the CDC

The Centers for Disease Control lists child developmental milestones as follows:

Developmental Milestones at 2 Months

Social and Emotional:

  • Smiles at people
  • Can briefly calm themselves
  • Tries to look at parent

Language/Communication:

  • Coos, makes gurgling sounds
  • Turns head towards sounds

Cognitive:

  • Pays attention to faces
  • Begins to follow things with eyes and recognize faces
  • Begins to act bored (cries, fusses) if activity doesn’t change

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Can hold head up, begins to push up when lying on tummy
  • Makes smoother movement with arms and legs

Developmental Milestones at 4 Months

Social and Emotional:

  • Smiles spontaneously, especially at people
  • Likes to play with people and might cry when play stops
  • Copies some movements and facial expressions, like smiling and frowning

Language/Communication:

  • Begins to babble
  • Babbles with expression and copies sounds they hear
  • Cries in different ways to show hunger, pain, or tiredness

Cognitive:

  • Lets you know if they are happy or sad
  • Uses hands and eyes together, such as seeing a toy and reaching for it
  • Follows moving things with eyes from side to side
  • Watches faces closely

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Holds head steady, unsupported
  • Pushes down on legs when feet are on a hard surface
  • May be able to roll over from tummy to back
  • Brings hands to mouth

Developmental Milestones at 6 Months

Social and Emotional:

  • Knows familiar faces and begins to know if someone is a stranger
  • Likes to play with others, especially parents
  • Responds to other people’s emotions
  • Likes to look at self in mirror

Language/Communication:

  • Strings vowels together when babbling (“ah”,”eh”, “oh”)
  • Begins to saw consonant sounds (“m”, “b”)
  • Responds to own name
  • Makes sounds to show joy and displeasure

Cognitive:

  • Looks around at things nearby
  • Shows curiosity about things, tries to get things that are out of reach
  • Begins to pass things from one hand to the other

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Rolls over in both directions (front to back, back to front) 
  • Begins to sit without support
  • When standing, supports weight on legs and might bounce
Child developmental milestone 6 months

Developmental Milestones at 9 Months

Social and Emotional:

  • May be afraid of strangers
  • May be clingy with familiar adults
  • Has favorite toys

Language/Communication:

  • Understands “no”
  • Copies sounds and gestures of others
  • Uses fingers to point at things

Cognitive:

  • Looks for things they see you hides
  • Puts things in their mouth
  • Plays peek-a-boo
  • Picks up thinks like cereal o’s between thumb and index finger

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Stands, holding on
  • Can get into sitting position
  • Sits without support
  • Pulls to stand
  • Crawls 

Developmental Milestones at 1 Year

Social and Emotional:

  • Cries when mom or dad leaves
  • Shows fear in some situations
  • Hands you a book when they want to hear a story

Language/Communication:

  • Responds to simple spoken requests
  • Uses simple gestures, like shaking head “no” or waving “bye-bye”
  • Makes sounds with changes in tone (sounds more like speech)

Cognitive:

  • Puts things in a container, takes things out of a container
  • Follows simple directions like “pick up the toy”

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Pulls up to stand, walks holding on to furniture (“cruising”)
  • May take a few steps holding on
  • May stand alone

Developmental Milestones at 18 Months

Social and Emotional:

  • Likes to hand things to others to play
  • May cling to caregivers in new situations
  • Plays simple pretend, such as feeding a doll
  • Points to show others something interesting

Language/Communication:

  • Says several single words
  • Says and shakes head “no”
  • Points to show someone what they want

Cognitive:

  • Knows what ordinary things are for; for example, telephone, brush, spoon
  • Points to one body part
  • Scribbles on their own
  • Can follow 1-step verbal commands without and gestures; for example, sits when you say “sit down”

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Walks alone
  • May walk up steps and run
  • Drinks from a cup
  • Eats with a spoon
Child developmental milestone 18 months

Developmental Milestones at 2 Years

Social and Emotional:

  • Copies others, especially adults and older children
  • Gets excited when with other children
  • Shows defiant behavior (doing what they have been told not to do)

Language/Communication:

  • Points to things or pictures when they are named
  • Says sentences with 2 to 4 words
  • Follows simple instructions

Cognitive:

  • Begins to sort shapes and colors
  • Completes sentences and rhymes in familiar books
  • Plays simple make-believe games
  • Follows two step instructions such as “pick up your shoes and put them in the closet”

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Stands on tiptoe
  • Begins to run
  • Climbs onto and down from furniture without help

Developmental Milestones at 3 Years

Social and Emotional:

  • Takes turns in games
  • Shows concern for crying friend
  • Shows a wide range of emotions
  • Understands the idea of “mine” and “his” or “hers”

Language/Communication:

  • Follows instructions with 2 or 3 steps
  • Can name most familiar things
  • Says first name, age, and sex
  • Carries on a conversation using 2 to 3 sentences

Cognitive:

  • Plays make-believe with dolls, animals, and people
  • Does puzzles with 3 or 4 pieces
  • Turns book pages one at a time
  • Screws and unscrews jar lids or turns door handle

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Climbs well
  • Runs easily
  • Walks up and down stairs, one foot on each step

Developmental Milestones at 4 Years

Social and Emotional:

  • Is more and more creative with make-believe play
  • Cooperates with other children
  • Talks about what they like and what they are interested in

Language/Communication:

  • Sings a song or says a poem from memory such as the “Itsy Bitsy Spider” or the “Wheels on the Bus”
  • Tells stories
  • Can say first and last name

Cognitive:

  • Starts to understand time
  • Remembers parts of a story
  • Draws a person with 2 to 4 body parts
  • Plays board or card games

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Hops and stands on one foot up to 2 seconds
  • Catches a bounced ball most of the time
  • Pours, cuts with supervision, and mashes own food
Child developmental milestone 4 years

Developmental Milestones at 5 Years

Social and Emotional:

  • Wants to please friends
  • More likely to agree with rules
  • Can tell what’s real and what’s make believe 
  • Shows more independence (for example, may visit a next door neighbor by themselves)

Language/Communication:

  • Speaks very clearly
  • Tells a simple story using a few sentences
  • Uses future tense; for example, “grandma will be here”

Cognitive:

  • Counts 10 or more things
  • Can print some letters and numbers
  • Copies a triangle and other geometric shapes

Movement/Physical Development:

  • Hops, may be able to skip
  • Can do a somersault
  • Can use toilet on their own